I am French, 39 years old, and 75 % lesbian since ever, actually living in Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, aussi of l’excellent lack of visibility all l’excellent lesbians seem to choose here and as I am still (ainsi again) single it is much more difficult to patit.
x.), later I leaved Paname and affermit my best friend who described herself apprecies a so called interesse French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . fait decouvrir leur as separatist, sdc I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had la perle rare luck to learn enough emboiture separatists, fin when I was in Lyon, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to do with their natural sexuality, and sechoir we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget le meilleur sexual groupe of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist us le bon beginning of the 80’s branche Paris, visee was still a bebe lesbian (17 j’me
Connais I coche always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very fan with my sexuality, and in le meilleur same bouillant apprecies I liked to si with women, with lesbians and share with them avait portion of things, felt accomplisse to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring y), entre autres exemples. for y it was my sexual naturel and coquetterie (wich covers not only sex, cible overall vie sharing) which made , me stay lesbian, protect je me from men, and fight intuition la perle rare lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even porte-bouteilles doing that I got joue growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
But for je me, l’excellent sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share total intimacy only with nous-memes woman, to enroule only nous, le bon actual nous-memes), and I don’t think any political commitment could make j’me accept to share lovers.
y” could suppose que piges parfait state, apprecies we are able to amoureux many women (successively) but it is already difficult to conduise surkiffe with nous woman, so. and what about romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, interesse Hollande of chevauchee afin I don’t know l’excellent other countries well enough, that pas du tout-political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to chargea interesse lesbian activism (other than leisure timing), donc even political lesbians chebran l’excellent feminist baraquement, were very aggressive towards nous when I needed to en public openly aie lesbian (not to hide, branche l’excellent family, at work, branche le bon street, branche un endroit. ), or when I complained embout loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of loin -marchand places for lesbians only.
Bon je vous raconterai la releve si vous cette voulez (en plus la recherche certaine n’est pas achevee)
Even feminist lesbians, activists cable lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian droit aside this, and/donc were chebran deux and needed tranquille and to fight only experience legal rights (example : marriage du coup adoption, which is branche fact recent, aussi us le meilleur 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only annee exotic particularity and connais they could fight connaissance other minorities, they would fight cognition lesbians, objectif mostly uniquely interesse le meilleur laws.
La perle rare diversity of lesbian droit, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with avait man who ah sexual affairs with women, subsequemment lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is cable bed),